BELIEVE IN YOURSELF 4 Comments / Education, Freelancing, Motivation / By Abdul Rehman Khan BELIEVE IN YOURSELFChildhood is very funny; one can go beyond his/her limits. We all have grown up with big dreams. Sometimes those dreams sound funny and unrealistic.Try to look for your childhood dreams that what you want to be and what you are today? Isn’t it crazy that your destination is East and you landed West?You know what is best about children they seldom think about the future they live their today with full fun and joy. We all grow up with dreams,to be a doctor,either to be an engineeror to be a teacher,summing up we want to be somebody. But when childhood is over and we officially enter the real world which starts beating us badly. We will reach a point where you start thinking that you are good for nothing which leads to no belief in yourself.There are two thoughts that always come in our mind. One is that I can do this means a strong belief in yourself. The second is only I can do it means no one else can do this, is actually overconfidence having out of control ego. Our life is full of contradiction with these two scenarios, for a healthy life one has to keep a balance between them.Here I am sharing some of my experience through which you can start believing in yourself and can beat the world with ease to live a joyful and prosperous life.PEOPLE WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTSYour surroundings will always make an impact on your life. Try to surround yourself with people having positive thoughts. Who are always there to motivate you and stand by you. Surround yourself with people who give you belief, make an association with them. Just give a crap to those people who always try to discourage you. WHAT ARE YOU READING OR WATCHING?Good habits always make your life beautiful. Reading and watching are part of life and can make your life more impactful if you make a choice in reading the material and watching anything. Try to read or watch that material which gives you energy, which gives you a taste of struggle, motivation, and a sense of belief in yourselfSET A DAILY GOALThe foremost thing that you have to do is to set your daily goals and try to achieve those as well. For example, if you want to be a professional writer.Then make a goal to write 500 words articles on a daily basis for that you have to spare 3 to 4 hours a day. If you start achieving your goals on a daily basis. It will automatically boost your energy level. You will start believing in yourself.AVOID THAT NEGATIVE INNER VOICEI cannot do this, I am so stupid, I am good for nothing, I am going to fail. These are some of the negative inner voices that stop you from believing yourself. Besides all, try to ignore these stupid thoughts. Don’t let yourself down always think about your positive traits and make positive use of them.GO WITH THE FLOWLet’s suppose you are unhappy with your job and wanted to quit to start your own business. So just go with the flow leave the job and start your own business. Sometimes we spend much time in making a decision that makes your life miserable. Do think and ask others for help but not too much.BEAT YOUR TOUGH TIME WITH YOUR FAITHLife is full of hurdles, there are times in life when you just stuck yourself that will make your life difficult to move on. This is the time where you need to have confidence in you, you have to beat your tough time with your faith in you. Sometimes it demands time you have to give that time but the most important thing is that you have to be consistent and committed with yourself.HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOUR ABILITIESIn your life that often happens that if you have been assigned a task, immediately you will start thinking that you cannot do this. But later when you start working you will able to achieve that particular task. Because those people who have confidence in their abilities can achieve any task.ABILITY TO LEARN & GROWFor learning anything there is no age limit and time. In addition, if you want to grow in your life you should have enough belief in leaning new knowledge and enhancing your skills and abilities. If you think that you don’t have learning ability at any time in life then you will end up nowhere. So you must have a belief in yourself to learn new skills which can boost your life in a positive manner.